perhatian bakal suami

July 05, 2013

Assalamualaikum.

Kahkah.. Tajuk post tak boleh blah. Hehe. So kepada bakal 'abang' saya, ayang nak gi sini buleh? :3

I've been dreaming travelling to Venice (for honeymoon), Makkah, Korea, Paris, Krabi, and Europe before I die. For Europe, I planned with my cousins and their friends to go there after I graduated my degree program. In shaa Allah. And for Korea, Iskandar said that he wanted to bring me there. Leulz. *gua tuntut sama lu* and Makkah, me and Mama have been pleading to Abah for umrah as soon as possible and there's no plan for the other places yet. I will not rush to this, but I hope I can go to these places somehow. 

Today, I want to add a place in the list. A small village called- Agueda in Portugal. Why? Because of this-




I find it so creative and interesting at the same time. This installation of umbrella, or floating umbrella is one of the places that has becoming the attraction to Agueda. However, if you want to see this street full of umbrellas, you have to come to Agueda during summer- in July. There will be summer festival and charade along this street. So, anyone interested? Let's plan to be here together :)

time to be spent

July 04, 2013

Assalamualaikum.

I bet there must be someone who has been wondering why I keep updating my blog lately. I have few reasons:

1. Since I have a job, I met new people, experiencing new environment. I'm quite excited to be a teacher in school even though -it's only temporary. But I think there are quite a few of us, who had this experience. Reasons why I chose this job because of course, as a future teacher this could help in not only in my career but in my practical teaching in 6th semester. Actually I'm quite disappointed with the administration since they still not giving me any specific teaching job in that school. But mom said, never mind this time you can learn how to control the class- it's important too :) When I was offered to be teaching in that school, the PPD officer said, is that okay-since that school is very popular with it's 'hard core students'. I accepted this job because I think, I have to start off with the worst so that in the future, whenever I face the difficulties in my career I'm not freaking out. Yeah think positive-and btw I get paid everyday. HAHA.

2. I want the readers other than teachers to be exposed to what teachers are facing today. Tbh, teachers nowadays are not bound with teaching- they have to be everything. Sometimes-a cleaner. With students' nowadays attitudes that they are not really bother about their studies *I'm not referring to all* + administration workload such as PBS, Kajian Tindakan and all, I realized sometimes they dont really have time for themselves. I will talk about this later.. In shaa ALLAH

3. I'm not really interested to other social network- facebook and twitter. Since I deactivated and activated my twitter accounts all over again, I would say, I lost my pace especially when I communicate with my friends there. I feel old and lame. So I decided not to tweet. -.-'' Facebook- you know everybody is lame.

4. Yes, I cannot deny that the UTM BLOGGER  badges and network made me more excited to blog. I met new friends in the blog- I read different stories, experiences, and especially experience after graduating. It brings me closer to the UTM society. it's just so pleasant :)

5. I just love to tell stories. and bragging kut. and bored. HAHA.


semester break rants 2.0

July 04, 2013

Assalamualaikum..

Ha, ya. Ini post sambungan kepada post sebelum dan sebelum ni.. hehe... Okay, hari ni tak panjang kut membebel..cume nak cerita sikit pasal hari sukan Kejohanan Olahraga dan Balapan Kali 43 sekolah yang aku kerja sekarang ni. Disebabkan aku hanya ditugaskan untuk semasa kejohanan aje, jadi takdelah penat letih letih sampai knackered. hoho.. 

Untuk kejohanan ni, aku ditugaskan jadi hakim balapan. Tau tak ape hakim balapan?? Okay, hakim balapan ni kerja dia bg nombor kat peserta bila dia smpai garisan penamat. Hakim balapan kene catat sape dapat nombor 1,2,3 dan seterusnya. Oh kalau macam acara 1500m- dimana peserta kene lari 4 pusingan padang, hakim balapan juga bertanggungjawab untuk catat berapa kali dah dia pusing padang. Nampak macam senang je kan? Tapi pada aku, blh tahan mencabar KALAU tak cukup AJK. Contohnya macam acar larian 100m Lelaki- acara ni, mmg paling laju dalam dunia. Lepastu kalau kau tak tgk betul2, jarak antara peserta pertama dgn peserta kedua mmg tak banyak. Huh, aku kecut je perut kalau time pelepas lepaskan budak budak lelaki ni lari.

Untuk sekolah ni, aku rasa sambutan kurang meriah sikit. Mungkin sebab kitorang pinjam padang sekolah lain, sbb sekolah ni takde padang. Lepastu kerjasama students dalam participation pun kau kene makan hati dulu lah baru dapat. Perbarisan rumah sangat simple,takde maskot, takde khemas berhias, takde kawad dari unit beruniform, takde ikrar, dan paling penting sekali, kau tak tau pun students ni rumah ape, sebab mostly dorang pkai baju PJK sekolah bukan baju warna rumah sukan. Erm,, lain sekolah lain budaya yedak?

Tapi Alhamdulillah, sume berjalan dengan lancar. Tapi tadi cuak gak, sbb tibe-tibe hujan lebat. Kalau ikutkan cikgu-cikgu ni nak teruskan je, tapi demi keselamatan atlet tu, kitorang tangguh sbb ade guruh petir. Aku yang terdampar kat tengah-tengah khemah kat padang pun basah gaklah sbb angin kuat. Balik-balik terus mandi, takut demam pulak kan..So, juara rumah - Rumah Tempua (warna kuning). Thank God esok Jumaat :) hehe maksudnye aku dapat weekend! jyeahhh~ dan paling best, lepas waktu rehat besok, ade acara bersempena Ramadhan. Takde kelas. Heaven!




terima kasih buat Encik Fizi tulang belakang Pekan Nanas, atas ihsan gambar :)

everything will go back to The One

July 03, 2013

Assalamualaikum...

Ha, nak komen sikit pasal isu Syiah yang makin menjadi-jadi  kat Malaysia ni especially bila ade seorang yang berprofile tinggi kat Malaysia ni mengaku yang dia berhaluan Syiah. Okay. Untuk post ini, apa yang ingin disampaikan hanyalah berdasarkan pemikiran aku sebagai seorang Muslim yang masih cetek tentang ilmu agama dan juga amalan yang kurang sempurna. But I decided to speak up since this is involving my religion and faith. What I'm going to say here is I want to be part of those people who deliberately believe that Syiah is not acceptable especially in the context of Islam in Malaysia.

Okay, perkataan Syiah ni, first time dengar masa belajar kat sekolah-sama ada sekolah agama or sekolah harian biasa. Aku tak sure ape sebenarnya erti Syiah yang sebenar, tetapi Syiah ni dia satu golongan umat Islam yang mengagung-agungkan Saidina Ali R.A sewaktu pemilihan khalifah selepas kematian Rasullullah S.A.W. dan juga banyak menentukan hukum yang bercanggah dengan yang sebenarnya. And aku sangat pasti, sebagai umat Islam kita tak sepatutnya perfahaman Syiah ni. Sebaliknya kita seharusnya berfahaman Sunni atapun Ahli Sunah Waljamaah kerana fahaman ni lebih tepat dan berlandaskan Al-Quran dan sunnah. Aku harap aku tak salah dalam mendifinisikan apa tu Syiah dan Sunni/ Ahli Sunnah Waljamaah.

Pada mulanya, aku tak aware pasal cerita syiah ni. Tapi satu hari tu, ade lah seorang hamba Allah ni msg aku  sbb dia nak jumpa lepas nak dekat 8 tahun jugaklah tak jumpa. lepastu dia tiba2 je mentioned pasal syiah ni..

" Korang sunni, mana boleh kepala dgn syiah.haha"
"Beres.. nanti boleh lah aku komuniskan korang sekali"


Aku agak terkejut lah sebab hamba Allah ni dia ada pelajaran agama yang tinggi kalau nak dibandingkan dengan aku. So, pada aku, kalau kau rasa fahaman Syiah ini adalah fahaman yang benar- diharap self-checked diri tu dulu. Mari kita ambil contoh : 1) nikah mut'ah- nikah kontrak. Aku mmg ingat sangatlah sebab baru periksa pasal nikah2 ni final hari tu mengatakan bahawa nikah mut'ah ni tak sah disisi agama.

Walhal Syiah menghalalkan nikah mut'ah ni.  2) solat jamak dan qasar- Rukhsar solat yang Allah beri untuk para musafir yang jarak perjalanan lebih 2 marhalah dan tidak bermaustatin setempat lebih daripada 3 hari. Tetapi Syiah anggap, solat jamak ni tak perlukan apa2 niat dan boleh dilakukan bila-bila sahaja.

Yang terbaik-rujuk kepada yang lebih pakar tentang fahaman Syiah ni. Pada aku, kalau kau tak tanya kat pakar pun kau dah boleh nmpk dah yang Syiah ni terpesong. Agama Allah itu satu-so hukumnya tetap sama untuk semua orang. Aku rasa trend sekarang ni lebih kepada mengikut-ikut. Contohnya, kalau kau ade kawan yang percaya Syiah-kau pun sibuk nak ikut percaya Syiah.

Pesan aku kepada yang suka naa ikut ikut orang ni.. aku rasa kau boleh amik balik buku text agama kau masa sekolah dulu, baca balik, fahamkan. Itu paling senang. Tak perlulah kau nak baca kitab-kitab yang tak tau sahihnya. Semua ni akan berbalik kepada apa yang Al-Quran dan Sunnah Rasulullah. Astaghfirullahalzim..kalau post ni menampakkan yang aku ni sombong dan bajet tau pasal agama, moga Allah ampunkan aku. Harapnya, siapa yang tetap percaya tentang faham Ahli Sunnah Waljamaah tak sesekali terlintas kat fikiran bahawa fahaman Syiah itu yg kita kne ikut. Semoga ketetapan iman dan ketenangan diberikan. Janganlah sibuk nak bergaduh tentang perkara sia-sia yang sememangnya kita dah tau apa kebenaranya. Wallahualam.

Post ni jugak nak menyeru sume supaya amik tahu pasal saudara kita dekat Syria yang ade kene mengena dengan Syiah ni. Siapa lagi nak tolong dorang kalau tak kita sesama Islam. Kalau susah nak sumbangkan benda-benda yang besar, sekecil-kecil hal pun boleh membantu sedikit sebanyak-doa, boikot, share pasal hal Syria ni untuk orang lain tau kebenaran yang sepatutnye. Mungkan ini sume tak layak sebagai Jihad Fisabilillah, tapi apa salahnya kita membantu. Kalau kau tak pentingkan semangat keagamaan, aku rasa semangat kemanusiaan pun cukup lah. In shaa Allah :)

P/s: Like lah page2 kat fb contohnya https://www.facebook.com/syria.care?fref=ts untuk tau ape-ape update atau bantuan yang boleh kita bagi.



ALLAHUAKBAR!

badges

July 02, 2013

Hey-ho! 
Gua dan UTM badges..
these are interesting stuffs that came from this nerdy university
oleh itu,

Gua sudah menjadi blogger bertauliah UTM
dan juga
menjadi antara 10 orang pertama yang mendaftar 

Long live me. kahkah

sile tgk left bar kalau nak cekit cekiddaut.
xD

bau.

June 23, 2013

suka bau badan mama dgn abah esp masa dorang balik kerja
suka bau perfume adik
suke bau perfume meia masa asasi
suka bau kereta budak lelaki
suka bau roti tgh bakar
suka bau bantal busuk aku
suka bau sweater iskandar, dgn iskandar sekali. nasib tak boleh cium
suka bau badan sendiri
         yang paling penting
suka bau duit

hee

June 01, 2013


2 minutes date

June 01, 2013

If you're a fan of How I met Your Mother, I'm pretty sure you're familiar with this scene. It is a scene of how Ted set up a 2 minutes date because of Stella only having 2 minutes lunch break. And Ted got to keep Stella until Stella left him at the alter. 

Ted obviously a hopeless romantic guy. But what I've learnt here is, he actually had a pretty good idea to get a good impression from Stella. I must say, if there's a guy who is willing to do that, I'm flattered. Like 78% serious. But my point is, in 2 minutes, Ted ans Stella  had a chance to get to know each other and creating memories. Why is it hard for me to meet someone I care at least 2 minutes? It has been a week since I met him, and I am crazy now people! I know a week. But whatever..He'll be gone in 4 days, and I have no slight chance to meet him. It is driving me crazy! Laugh out loud all you want, saying that I'm a crazy-overly-attached bitch but here's the thing.. He is the only one who I 'really' have other than my parents for the past few weeks. He's the only one because everyone around me is keep hurting me. Geez. 

All I need is 2 minutes, seeing his face and I'll be okay. That's all I want to do right now.

May 27, 2013

I need a hug hug hug. Oh a hug hug hug. oh huggggg~

gone

May 27, 2013

I was having conversation with Kak Fasiha about what I'm gonna be after grad. To be honest- all I could think of is continuing my study a.k.a taking master. I would say, that is so TIMID version of me. before this, I was so adventurous, inspirational and so not afraid of trying. But now, I'm so lazy, cheap, broken and bent.  Where's the concept of wild, young and free?! I don't know!! Let me show you the version of me after I finished my foundation. I have so many opts- I wanna take degree in English (Literature) or I wanna take architectures or Art and Designs, or major in Masscom as a journalist *i'd like to be a food journalist* You know, one thing I've found from my lecturers in Foundation, they encouraged us to be more than a teacher.  You can see there are a lot from my batch choose English, Procom,mascom or even culinary for their first degree. The thing is, my lecturers in my foundation years were so inspiring and did not give us the pressure to be a teacher ONLY. Let me review the version of me now. All I want to do after my graduation, I just want to further my studies and at some point in my life I just wanna settle down and having kids. That's all. No more opts that I could find in my head. 

Actually, I have plans of yeah to be more me rather than following the 'educational' flow. But I think my life is all about being what society and family want  me to be. Oh gosh these things reminded me how fooled I am in recent incidents of my life. I don't wana talk about it. I've found it is so relevant to keep everything with my self and share this to no one, since I have no one interested to me nowadays. I hope it's all about timing. Maybe at this moment I just so messed up with my life and I hope one day Allah show me what I should be. Bak kata Yana- Yang terbaik pun tak semestinya mmg baik untuk aku. Indeed Allah knows the best.


:)

May 21, 2013

a delightful evening. and yeah I got the sweater. 
Partayyyyy~~!!

Response to my questions.

May 18, 2013

"A sister asked Sheikh Yawar Baig a question regarding marriage; This was his response.

Question:

I want to get married to this man in my university who says that the best thing for him is to get married to get out of the temptations that surround him. He is still a student on scholarship and has no income or career. What is your advice?

Answer:

جزاك اللهُ خيراً for your question. My advice is that you learn to eat grass. If you marry someone without an income, that is what you will need to be able to do at some point. Sorry to be rude – but as George Bernard Shaw said, ‘You must never be afraid to offend people because that is the only time that they listen.’ So I hope you are offended and can wake up from the hormone induced dream that you are in before it turns into a nightmare.

For a man to be suitable to marry, you must look for three things:

1. How is his Deen?
-Is he on the Shari’ah and Sunnah?
-Is he particular to avoid the doubtful things? (Does he eat doubtful chickens and drink Coke/Pepsi?)
-How are his manners? Not to you – but to all around him.
-Is he argumentative and combative about everything? Is he an auto-refuter?
-Is he kind and considerate to those weaker than him? Does he thank the waiter and the doorman?
-Is there a smile on his face or a frown? Does he have a sense of humor?
-Is he smart? Does he read more than comics? Can you have a serious, sensible conversation with him?
-Is his brain bigger than his biceps? (If he proposed to you without an income, I seriously doubt that it is)
-Is his language that of inclusion or exclusion – looking down on others who he considers as not so good Muslims as himself?
-Does he praise more or criticize more? Is he forgiving of others or eager to expose their faults?
-How particular is he about avoiding Haraam (Sorry to point out, but if he was having conversations with you without a Mahram, he and you were already indulging in Haraam)?

2. Can he support himself?
-How? Not dreams and smooth talk – but actual nuts and bolts. Here and now?
-Has he completed his education? How much longer will that take?
-Will his family support this marriage of yours until he can get a job (lousy situation to be in but better than eating grass)?
-What is his profession and how soon can he get a job?
-What kind of income does he have today and what can he look forward to?
-Is that enough to support you and your family?
-Believe me, today you may think that you can live on love and sunshine but I doubt that you can pay your rent with sunshine. Neither will sunshine buy you bread – that’s why I said that you may like to start eating grass because that is free and maybe you can even hire your services out as a walking lawn mower and make some money as well.

3. How compatible are you with each other and each other’s families?
-That means that you wake up and ask some basic questions like what do they eat?
-Where do they come from? Country and culture. Not race. I have seen marriages between Africans and African Americans break up in six months because Africans and African Americans are two different cultures, even though racially they are the same. Race doesn’t matter. Culture does. Difference is not bad. Incompatibility is. And many a time, difference translates as incompatibility.
-What is the relationship and expectation from the parents in law? 
-How do they live? Are they from a multi-marriage culture where your husband-to-be who can’t resist temptations today will once again not be able to resist temptations and will take unto himself another wife; and perhaps another. So how will you take to that?
-What kind of financial background do your husband’s family come from? Is there too much of a disparity?
My mother used to say, ‘To patch a tear in a muslin garment you don’t use gold brocade.’

Finally of all the dumb reasons to marry is to ‘stay out of temptation’. I know I have just put myself in line for the Fatawa of all my ‘strong’ brothers who will strike me down with this and that Hadith. But before I go down, let me say to you, my dear sister, in plain words; What he is saying in effect is that he needs a legal means for sex.

So what happens when the hormones are not boiling any longer? He’s not marrying you for yourself. He is marrying you for himself. That is the worst reason to get married to anyone for. Believe me and wake up. Or keep sleeping and find out for yourself when the dream turns into a nightmare. After all nightmares are also dreams.

I will tell you what happens in 9 cases out of 10. When things get too tough and you demand time, attention and money, he will walk away and you will be left holding the baby – quite literally. Then what are you going to do?

So wake up and answer this questionnaire and if he comes out on top, by all means marry him. If not suggest to him to take cold showers – maybe he should put his bed in the shower – and you focus on your education. You came to the university to study. Not to look at boys. He came to study. Not to look at girls. Concentrate on your education. Get distinction. And go home. And then see what Allah has in store for you in terms of your Rizq – a husband you can look up to and be proud of. A husband who will be proud of you and treat you like a princess – not only during your honeymoon but for all your life.

I wish you all the best in this world and the next."-via Aisyah Anasmosa.

 So, what do you think? I feel like I've been slapped in my face like 100 times.I've been in a relationship for quite some time and I'm lying if I said I've never discussed about marriage and stuff. Thank god he's more rational than I am, whenever marriage was mentioned he will say,"duit takde. Nak kawen macam mane? nak bagi awak makan ape? "

 I have a friend here in UTM, he is in his third year now, and he's going to marry a student from UIA in October. I have been wondering how he will be managed things such as the pressure to be far from his wife, money of course, and how about the things that are unplanned happens?And for me, his future wife is an overly-attached type, so how he is going to manage all this pressure?But I've never expected anything worst and bad from him. He is a nice guy, if his intentions are good, May Allah bless him and his wife because to be married at a young age isnt an easy task. 

 Well, this is such an eye-opener for me. Not only what to think about when I decided to get married but it makes me realized, am I a good muslimah and slave to Allah S.W.T? I know, to be in a relationship itself is a sign that I'm not abiding the rules that Allah S.W.T has created for us. Because to be in a relationship itself I've put myself in Zina. Remember? "La Takrabuzzina"- Dont you ever attached yourself in zina? I dont want to explain more, because I think we're matured enough to think what is Haram and Halal. Hurm there are so many things to think about. May Allah S.W.T forgive all my sins. Amin. 

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